Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back From Another Man By Bypassing Her Rational Brain And Speaking Directly To Her Heart For Instant Connection
You just broke up and she’s already moved on, leaving you behind to feel lonely, sad, and heartbroken. What a skank!
Sorry I had to go there, but I needed to get your attention. Obviously your ex-girlfriend isn’t a skank, or you wouldn’t be here looking for ways to get her back. But that doesn’t make it hurt any less if she broke up with you and has already moved on to another man.
The good news is you can get your ex-girlfriend back, even if she’s started dating someone else. Here’s the method I recommend using.
In the meantime, don’t sit around feeling sorry for yourself. That won’t help you feel better, and it certainly won’t make you more attractive to your ex.
One of my favorite relationship authors is Michael Fiore (http://michaelfiore.org/). He’s developed an entire system designed around tiny little text messages that help you get your ex back. Inside the program he talks about emotional language and the process of putting feelings into words. He says,
“Human beings have a multi-layered brain. There’s the cerebral cortex, which does a lot of the self-control, reasoning, planning, and abstract thought. Those are exactly the things you DON’T want your ex to be using at this point. Then there’s the cerebellum, which is responsible for motor control. Not our target here, either.
What we want to stimulate is the amygdala, a little bundle of cells on either side of the brain–quite primitive, actually–that recognizes and responds to emotion. We want to bypass the rational brain–the part that is calculating, clinical, and filled with doubt, and get the positive emotions pumping. Not only does this get past the rational mind, it also stimulates memory and social connectedness, both of which are functions that the amygdala is involved in. True story!
In your Best of the Relationship texts, you’re going to bring up past experiences using as much POSITIVE emotional language and DETAIL as possible. The Text Judo here is that we’re taking the powerful emotions your ex already feels around you and pushing them towards positive thoughts instead of the negative thoughts they may have now.”
Best of the Relationship texts are just one of several different kinds of texts Michael uses inside his program to help men and women reconnect with their exes. If you want your ex girlfriend back, emotional language will really help you speak to her so she actually hears you and actually listens to what you have to say…even if she doesn’t respond to your texts.
If the texts you’re sending right now aren’t working, try a different approach that bypasses her rational brain and speaks directly to her heart for instant connection!